I am a 36 year old female who is still trying to make ends meet. I work full time and go to school part time. Sometimes taking one class a semester. I live alone and take care of all my bills along with a car note....once i add school, things get a little stiff as i also try my best to take care of family back home in South Africa. I am looking for a generous man who would like to help a poor soul like me. I would like to get married but my issue has been many man i was in a relationship with didnt want me to take care of my family and the relationship would always fall apart. I have a good heart and even though i dont have much i try my best to share with my family back home. Im selective with my time, loves music, adores sunsets, the moon, the stars, the ocean blue, the sandy beaches, the warm gentle breeze filling the nightime air, blowing away all the worries of the day. I am a bit stubborn, but also playful and child-like. I m tender yet strong in spirit, mysterious and unique. I long for surprises, flowers and hugs for absolutely no reason at all!