I am about having fun! Life has to be taken seriously, but why not enjoy it at the same time. There have been times when fun meant jumping on a plane for jamaica at a moments notice and other times it was a night downtown or just hanging out. .. .i want spontanaity. .. And passion. . not fake passion. . real passion! Passion for life, art, culture, carreer, anything! Just have passion in your life if you want to click with me! ****update i have had a lot of comments with regards to what a guy is looking for when he says he wants to have fun. I mean enjoy life, laugh, look back on a day and say "wow that was great! " even if it was just hanging out and being goofy and doing nothing at all! I feel chemistry is very important in a relationship, (and it reveals itself in a kiss. Kisses never lie. ) as for dating, who i'm with is much more important than where we go. I am attracted to someone who is comfortable with herself. She smiles frequently because she is happy, not to be the most popular. She has a passion for everything, and that list keeps growing. Music moves her, and she wants to absorb that feeling with someone like her. She seeks to build on similarities, rather than break down differences. She appreciates, and reciprocates, respect. She loves today, and is very excited/passionate about tomorrow. Is this you?