please allow myself to introduce my self My name is dr. thomas r smith md. phd (tommy) I am financially secure medical doctor and a writer of sensual erotic romance novels and poetry??i am affectionate, empathic, and compassionate man who loves life and believes in love. I am a very sincere open and honest individual. I am intelligent and very down to earth, extremely passionate and sensual i am a widower for 5 year a??I really enjoy sharing quiet moments with (my mate- where ever whoever she may be?) because it gives us a chance to really connect with one another. I believe that communication is paramount in order to get to know someone. I also enjoy walks along the beach or in the park. I am a hopeless romantic who enjoys the simple things such as quiet candle light dinners by the fireplace just the two of us with a little soft jazz to entice the atmosphere. I love being outdoors and visiting new and exciting places, traveling. I take life seriously, by taking care of myself and I try to stay in shape and physically fit. I believe that there are endless possibilities in life for us to take on and explore,??I am a very kind man with??traditional virtue. i have Strong family virtue, i believe it very important to support my wife in all she wishes to do with her life. the family must always come first. I am truthful in all things. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself. I like to bring sunshine and smile to the world. The art of being happy consists in making one's joys simple. Because the grand essentials in the life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. We don't find happiness. We make it.??