I am a self-employed environmental journalist and consultant. Some relationships were pretty transitory, others lasted longer. A couple are ongoing. I prefer ones that start out with lots of email or phone time, just to make sure we're both on the same page. If a meeting seems to make sense, we go from there. Everyone has a different goal doing this. I've found it's best if we are upfront about things and respond to that. Everything MUST be mutual! In my opinion, Sugardaddies and Sugarbabies, if they are wise, have found a way to cut thru all the posturing and games and get right to the point. If the two potential daters can be honest about boundaries and expectations up front, it saves time and trouble. All that said, what are you seeking, my Lovely?