I need someone: Not Married. Nurturing/Loving/Consider ate, Funny Good sense of humor about life. Fun to be with. I want someone who doesn t take himself or life all that seriously. Life shouldn t be all work. With Energy I don t want a couch potato. Positivity I have to be around someone positive because I despise whining and complaining. I admire and respect optimism. Confident firm, not wishy-washy, strong, but sensitive to others, not pretentious but willing to lead. Creativity- Resourceful, enterprising, smart. Extroverted/Friendly I need someone that can go out on a limb and say what s real even if it feels like jumping off a cliff. I want someone who can walk up and shake hands with my Dad with complete confidence. Someone who will not be shy. Openness- They are able to get along with many different types of people and are not prejudiced and closed minded. Sensibility - (not super over-cautious with their money, but someone who has control over it and other aspects of their life. Someone who plans and thinks ahead). Self-Disciplined The opposite of a self-indulgent man of feeble character and little will. My mate needs to be in control of himself. I do not want a man that has to indulge his every whim. Respectful I have to have respect. I am very fun and playful by nature, I absolutely will want to please, but if you expect too much of me without having earned it, that is disrespect. Committed- I would like to find someone that is ready to be together and accept me and my girls without reservation. I highly value this family experience and know there are others out there who know how priceless those events and memories are. If you are not going to be part of the family, you have no business sharing in our most cherished moments. If you ARE committed, you will be surrounded with family and traditions, warmth, humor, love and laughter. Generosity I am generous and I know my true soul mate shares that quality.