If you are comfortable with gender-variant people, then keep reading; I am a transman interested in women who have no issues with that. Now, if you're still with me, I have another confession to make: I am absolutely certain I would be bad for you. Like chocolate. Like ice cream. Like staying up too late and laughing until your sides ache. Like sneaking sexy text messages. Like disappearing for an afternoon - or a weekend - as if you had nothing to stay home and be responsible for. Like making you feel full of yourself and showing you all the things that are so uniquely fine about you. Like taking your what-ifs beyond boundaries you never though you d have the courage to cross. Yeah, I might not be the man of your dreams, but while you're waiting around for the elusive Mr. Right to appear, you could do worse than to have a meal in Tucson with me. Oh, and be warned - if you hotlist me I will contact you.