b Things you might need to know: /b I do smile often, just not in my photos. I have a good sense of humor made better by someone else. I'm intelligent, but more than that I am clever. I believe relationships that start in confusion stay in confusion. I am NOT a cat person. I have taken belly dancing lessons. I believe food should be slow. I have no interest in religion. I embrace my contradictions; I love contrast. I think its critical to laugh at myself or you. I believe at least one other person will read this. B You know we might fit if. /b If you have asked forgiveness not permission at least once You respect your body Are clever and can use that power for good Use kindness instead of niceness (and big points for knowing the difference) I want a man I can be irreverent with, have more fun together than I can alone (and I can entertain myself quite well) and someone I look forward to seeing. He has to smell delicious and kiss just as good. I want to see him as the most interesting and amazing man in my life on all levels in all areas. I think long term relationships need to have a caveat that would be like this: when we become desensitized to each others pheromones we need to do something to stir it/us up. If we're going to stay together then we are the most intimate of partners no matter what we do.