I preferred successful men even when I was in Highschol. I wanted to know what their dreams and what their ambitions were before I got to close. I am involved in taking care of myself- I definitely look good (had 2 kids back-back, feel me? ) but could look better! I love the spa, getting my hair done, tanning, nails, eyebrows, (whole nine yards of beauty) and taking care of myself and movies, nightlife, I love shopping and picking out outfits to go out in and I love to dress up and go dancing all nite long. Or I can chill at the beach with a picnic lunch as long as conversation is good and flowing I love kids and am very family oriented. I have a tough history, meaning yes there's some baggage but I have thrown most of it away! I am not a gold digger, I grew up very poor and in foster care so money is just a means to me but I do like money but it doesn't make or break me! And one crucial thing about me is I speak my mind but with tact. I'ma whatcha see YOU GET kinda girl and I don't have time for bs!