You know you just never know what you might find when you really aren't looking for anything in particular. We all think we have something special to offer someone, but for one reason or another things just don't seem to work out like you plan. When life gives you lemons you have to make lemonade. I guess when you get to be my age and after being divorced for so many years the bucket list (things you can live with and things you can't live with)seems to be getting bigger and broader. I don't do cats, small dogs, bitchy attitudes, whining or being late for an appointment or date (I'm sure there are more). I've always thought myself to be a great judge of character; since I am one, Haha! By looking at a photo or conversing with someone in the matter of a few moments. Hey even I have made a few mistakes, but I can assure you if getting your hair and nails done is a priority we will not match. In the past I have just called timeout; drawn up a new play and got back in there. I'm an avid yachtsman, love the water and love to golf and those two things would possibly make my life complete given that I have the right person to do them with. Low maintenance, sexy(to me), athletic, and the girl next door type seems to work best for me. Is that you?