I think one of the hardest sentences to write is the first one about your self. Even though whatever I say about myself is genuine, it comes down to that no matter how sincere and eloquent I am; you won't REALLY believe it unless we end up meeting and spending some time together. A few important items: First, I am NOT married. That's a biggie for most people. I have 2 wonderful daughters from a previous marriage and they are with me part time. I'm an Architect, opened my own firm in 1992 and have been incredibly blessed career-wise and love what I do. I lead a very active lifestyle; having in the last year run 4 marathons and three 1/2 Ironman triathlons. Although what I truly aspire to find is a long term relationship, until I find that I can appreciate the companionship of an amazing woman: someone who interests me mentally, physically, and spiritually. In that regard, I am flexible as to what I am looking for on this site. I've found in life that if you put blinders on and only look for one thing, something amazing and wonderful can pass you by.