Well I guess let me start out by saying that I am a guy who is honest and caring and has had had a hard time meeting someone worthwhile. I am a fun, smart, good sense of humored, outgoing, hard working, well mannered, laid back kind of guy, who likes movies/music, warm weather, boating, jet skiing, shooting pool, hanging out with friends, cooking, being active, shopping, and eating at different places in Chicago, but I also enjoy quiet evenings at home cuddling next to that special someone in my life. As for what I'm looking for in a mate I guess I would describe her as a woman who enjoys life, one that is fun/witty, a lady who can be comfortable cuddling while watching a movie, wild when going out to a bar/club, or when in bed together but when needed act appropriately, someone who can carry a conversation, and make me laugh and I her at the silliest things also be random and be open minded about things life has to offer.